Friends...............do they really friends....??

ohya........everbody have friends...............of coz some of them a lot of friends...........i have some doubt on myself who is actually my friends??i have friends that are
1)Need your help only become your friends............
2)Want your money ...........to purchase something from them

haiz.......actually this world is very materialistic...............you can help them.........you are their best friends............you can buy from them............you are their best friends...........!!
I just get a real experiences on friends that become my friends because they need my help............
People need my help..........i help as much as i can..................when i need their help............just some minor stuff that would not take them 10 minutes.......to send some email...this is the reply i get...............you help me on this this first lah then i only send......because i very busy you know!!ok fine...........soo many Terms and Conditions to help............
I just hate people who are asking around for people to help them......we help without T&C applied....but when we ask them back the same things..........all those T&C we must fulfill first before they help us!!
Lastly.........ohya i better do it myself then asking other people help............maybe would not get good result .......but why bother..........because i do it myself without asking other people help!!